So I went... and wound up spending 2-3 hours at the cafe talking with Alaa, a 35-year old unmarried Muslim originally from the Jordanian capital, Amman. Before we even started talking, he told me the reason he had been friendly to me at the internet cafe was because he could tell I was a very simple woman which I later found out was a huge compliment and something he had deduced by my dress and my lack of makeup. We started out by talking about our lives as singles in our respective cultures and about many of the misconceptions the East and West have of each other. But after sometime, the conversation got much deeper and he started to confide in me on more taboo topics. He whispered across the table about his respect for Israelis (their success in business, their standard of living, etc.), prostituion (apparently far more common in the Muslim world than one might expect) and his darkest days when he wasn't sure he wanted to live. We even talked very candidly about religion - he told me why his (moderate) faith was so important to him and this time around I actually confessed my lack of faith and skeptical view on religion. It was a really insighful conversation and one I won't forget anytime soon. It ended with him walking me back to the internet cafe to finish my blogging and then a polite good night as he set off for his home. Not the finish to the story you were expecting, huh? (-:
Days 31 & 32 ::: I got up and walked in search of a Turkish bath, but the only one I found was nasty so I decided against it. I cruised around a bit more, but didn't find anything very interesting so I checked out of my hotel and made off for the Israeli border, a mere 10 minutes away. The border crossing was nothing out of the ordinary except for the very interesting border guard on the Jordanian side who searched all of my bags and then asked me if I had a camera. Of course I said, "yes" and pulled it out thinking he wanted to examine the photos. He picked up the camera, looked at it and then handed it to his buddy, who used it to take a picture of us...ha! I was laughed and then moved through to the next check point. I deleted the photo before I got to the Israeli guards - just in case. How random!
Once I got into Israel, I met some backpacking Brazilians with whom I shared a cab to Eilat, Israeli's Red Sea resort town. In short, the next two days were spent sizzling in the extreme heat (mid/upper 40s) between dips in the Sea, shopping (wait till you see the new Armani shades) and reading Harry Potter feverishly. I finished it in less than two days - so good!!!
Days 36 & 37 ::: Food, city exploration, beach, disco nap and then out for another night of MAKING PARTY - do you see a pattern here? This time started the night around 2am at Barzilay, another medium-sized club with a great, underground vibe. Dark, dark and darker...just the way we like it! Carsten Klemann (MyMy/Berlin) headlined the night, only a few days before MyMy's NYC debut at the Blk Market Membership and Wolf & Lamb boat party. Thanks so much to Tubi (Exercise/Israel) for hooking me up! I hung around with more of Shirley's crew until sometime after 5am when I went back to Haoman 17, this time to meet Gal and Dan for a party for the boys. This time the club was packed and the vibe was great. Tal Cohen (Israel) and Elliott J Brown (Fire/London) were on the decks and actually played pretty damn well. I couldn't believe my ears when Laurent Garnier's "The Man With The Red Face" got dropped sometime around 7am - simply amazing!! We closed out the party at some unidentifiable time (outlasting all of Shirley's friends!) and then proceeded directly to a rooftop afterhours after getting an invite from one of the boys I had been dancing with all night. Day 38 ::: Recovery, shwarma, beach, sushi, sleep.
Trip reading list:
--The Crisis of Islam: Holy War and Unholy Terror by Bernard Lewis
--The End of Faith by Sam Harris
--The Risks of Sunbathing Topless: And Other Funny Stories from the Road by Kate Chynoweth
--A Million Little Pieces by James Frey
--Harry Potter and the Deathly Hallows by J. K. Rowling
--Blink: The Power of Thinking Without Thinking by Malcolm Gladwell

2 comments:
wow- now I know where my next vacation will be- keep up the party, girl
Good to see you're holding down the fort,mamacita.
see you on Sunday, less than a week!
xx
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